Not As We Planned - Live (Exposure Tour)

Not As We Planned is coming to Assembly Roxy on Sunday 15 November, part of its Exposure Tour. It's a live show that grows out of the podcast of the same name, which Tash and Carly run as an honest space for conversations about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood — the kind of things people rarely talk about out loud.

Much of the material comes from the hosts' own lives: becoming a mum, navigating divorce, rebuilding as a single parent and dating again in your thirties. It's the real, messy, unexpected side of things rather than the polished version. The live format takes that energy to the stage, with audience participation and deep dives into modern dating disasters. They'll be talking through the usual suspects — love bombing, breadcrumbing, ghosting, gaslighting and the men who 'just aren't ready for a relationship right now'.

Edinburgh is one of several stops on the tour, which also calls at London and Manchester. There are limited VIP packages available that add a pre-show meet and greet with Tash and Carly, a photo opportunity and a goodie bag. The show starts at 2:30pm on Sunday 15 November at Assembly Roxy, 2 Roxburgh Place, Edinburgh Old Town EH8 9SU, with tickets from £35.